Calm body, clear voice
A rapid, 2-minute nervous-system protocol to switch off survival so your words land without a fight. Practice live and feel steadier before hard talks, texts, or family situations.
Spot → Specify → Script → Say → Stay
Turn shaky "please" into respectful limits. Get word-for-word lines for phone snooping, silent treatment, and in-law critiques—plus a consequence ladder that preserves peace, not war.
Document, don't debate
End the "Am I crazy?" spiral with a simple incident log and three reality questions. Build clarity you can trust when gaslighting clouds memory, and choose your next step confidently.
Act safely, learn quietly
Discreet device hygiene, nickname entry, and code-word plans for shared phones. Create day-to-day safety and privacy without drama, and know what to do if risk escalates suddenly.
Protect your child's peace
A 3-minute bedtime ritual, school-note template, and parallel-parenting scripts. Reduce exposure to conflict, model healthy boundaries, and bring steadiness back into your child's body.
Practice → Feedback → Accountability → Identity
See the weekly loop that makes change stick: Boundary Labs™, mentor notes, and a six-metric scorecard. Close the knowing-doing gap and keep gains even on tough weeks.
A gentle boundary message you can send tonight
Child-calm ritual you can start tonight
Two privacy moves for shared phones
Name covert control fast and decide sanely, not in fog.
Regulate in 120 seconds; stop freeze, fawn, or flare.
"Slept 7 hours for the first time in months. Sent the script. No fight."— A., 36
"Held 5/6 boundaries by Week 4. My son's bedtime went calm."— M., 41
"I stopped second-guessing. Reality log = clarity."— R., 32
Camera optional. Use any name you choose.
Neutral name appears on receipts for privacy.
Private tabs and clearing tips for shared phones.
Behavior-first language, no shaming or labels.
Not therapy. We provide referrals when needed.
90 minutes • Interactive • Replay shared privately
Zoom link + calendar invite sent immediately
Drills & scripts to practice after class
Replay access + mini workbook with timers, scripts, and checklists
Starter micro-course with SERENE-120™ audios & 5S drills
30-minute game-plan to set boundary targets